How To Make Your Site Is The Most Visited?

This question is the biggest freaky question among all blogger or webmaster. Some people said that by giving a best SEO (Search Engine Optimization) will give you great result on the searches. Some people succeed in this method. That's why a lot of site offering to optimize the content of your site. The other is the hard way. Starting from blog walking, that means you visit other people site with hope that the webmaster or site owner or other visitor will visit back to your site. Pinging the provider that give them information that you already update the content of your site. Some sites offering to automate pinging, just by giving your site name, your site url, a captcha code, then they'll do the rest. The result is reported in seconds. If you like, you can submit your rss feed to this list to make them put your content on their search :
http://freeckr.blogspot.com/2009/08/want-to-increase-your-site-or-blog.html

And, you can submit your site to lot of search engine below:
http://freeckr.blogspot.com/2009/07/blog-site-submission-directory.html

Whatever the way you take, making a good quality content is a great challenge of the blogger. That is what I am facing now. So, what do you think, guys?